Abroad life. Please Read it.....

Abroad  life… Please  Read it.....     Dear Father &  Mother,     Today I am completed 5 years in the Gulf. I am decided to come at home next month. Within these 5 years, I have zero balance apart from clear out my visa expenses and availed one vacation before. Upon this vacation, I don't like to return Gulf. I have sound health to do any manual job at home country.     Let me know your suggestion. Yours love Jamal.       Dear Jamal,   Father writing: Received your letter and very happy to know about your vacation.  Rest will continue your mother.   Dear son, do you know about the condition of our house? Rainy season, nobody can to stay inside the house. Rep air and maintenance is very expensive with these old wooden items, all are suggesting preferring a concrete house. Without home, do you know, there is no alternative. If you decided to stop Gulf, can you do this with your limited income? I am just reminding this, you can decide what you like.   Yours loving mother.       Dear Mother,   Now I am completed 10 years at this desert. I like to come home next month. Within these periods, we rebuilt our house, and I completed all the related loans. Now I am planning to settle home and expecting to meet our day to day expenses by Taxi driving. I already fed up with this desert life. I want to live with my kids. Let me know your suggestions.     Yours loving Jamal.     Dear Jamal,   Received your letter which is very regrettable when I read my son started to suffer for us at his childhood. But one more thing I reminding you. Your sister Zainaba is aged more than 20. Did you have any arrangement or plan to get her marry. I have only one ambition that is to die after her marriage. Don't feel bad, I am not passing any burden to you, you can decide yourself.   Yours loving Mother.   Dear Mother and Zuhara (wife),   Now I am completed 14 years at this January. I fed up with this Gulf life. I can not continue more here. I am deciding to cancel my Visa. Within the last four years, we could arrange the marriage of Zainaba, which was done well with the help of Allah higher than our expectation, and paid out all expenses related to her marriage.     Also settled my other loans too. Now I am deciding to settle at home and start any job like light driving or similar. I can not do any heavy work, because I have abnormal BP and Sugar. If I continue here, I am forced to pay all my salary for medical expenses, so it is better to continue any Unani treatment at home.   Yours Jamal.     Dear Jamal,   I shed much tears after reading your letter. Anyhow, my son, you don't go back to Gulf any more. But Zuhra (wife) wants to write something. Dear my sweet, after our marriage, I am not requested anything from you, but now I am forced to ask something. After marriage of your brother Jalal, your mother is totally against me. Now your mother is depending his wife for everything. Also I heard, your mother is planning to give this house to your brother. If any dispute arises, where can we go with our kids if you are decided to settle home, can you possible to make a house for our own? Do you know the price of steel and Cement and labour charges, which is not affordable. I am just expressing my anxious, you can decide yourself.   Yours loving Zuhara.         Dear Zuhara,   Now I am completed 19 years at my gulf life. Within this last four years, we built a new house with my effort which is higher than your expectation.. Now I have no balance, except the retirement benefit from the company, i.e my final settlement around SR 25000/ only that is my net balance. Anyhow turning back, I have satisfaction; I could do something for others.  From now, I can not continue here. Last 19 years, I could not understand what a family life is. Now I am deciding to settle home and I want to live with you and children. This month last, I am retiring from my job, see you face to face.   Yours loving Jamal.     Dear my sweet loving:   After reading your letter, I am very happy to know about your decision to discontinue the gulf life even you are late. But our son requested me to write one thing to you. He likes to join Engineering course. He got an admission Card from Amrita   Auto Engineering College , Coimbatore . First year needs to pay 4 Lakhs (SR 40000/-) then each year 3 lakhs each. No need to pay cash down at one stroke, they agreed installment payment.   Students learning there are all expatriates sons. Fist installment must pay on or before this 30th. Expecting your reply soon.   Yours loving Zuhra.     He spent a sum more for the education of his son and to get marry his daughter, then now he completed 27 years. Now he is on the way to the Airport with his ultimate balance of Blood Sugar, Blood pressure, back pain and ulcer. On the way incidentally, he noticed a letter in his pocket , which he received from home, not opened yet,   That is the first letter he did not read in his Gulf life.

The Goat and the Horse!!!

The Goat and the Horse!!!   There was a farmer who had a horse and a goat….. One day, the horse became ill and he called the veterinarian, who said: "Well, your horse has a virus. He must take this medicine for three days. I'll come back on the 3rd day and if he's not better, we're going to have to put him down." Nearby, the goat listened closely to their conversation. The next day, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat approached the horse and said: "Be strong, my friend. Get up or else they're going to put you to sleep!" On the second day, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat came back and said: "Come on buddy, get up or else you're going to die! Come on, I'll help you get up. Let's go! One, two, three..." On the third day, they came to give him the medicine and the vet said: "Unfortunately, we're going to have to put him down tomorrow. Otherwise, the virus might spread and infect the other horses." So saying they left. The goat approached the horse and said: "Listen pal, it's now or never! Get up, come on! Have courage! Come on! Get up! Get up! That's it, slowly! Great! Come on, one, two, three... Good, good. Now faster, come on...... Fantastic! Run, run more! Yay! Yay! Yay! You did it, you're a champion!" All of a sudden, the owner came back, saw the horse running in the field and began shouting: "It's a miracle! My horse is cured. We must have a grand party. Let's kill the goat!!!! The Lesson: This often happens in the workplace. Nobody truly knows which employee actually deserves the credit for success, or who's actually contributing the necessary support to make things happen. Remember…… LEARNING TO LIVE WITHOUT RECOGNITION IS A SKILL! If anyone ever tells you that your work is unprofessional, remember: Amateurs built the Ark [which saved all the species]    Professionals built the Titanic [many died tragically]

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A Touching Farewell....

This is a story worth sharing !!! This about Mr. Zavere Poonawala who is a well-known industrialist in Pune. He had this driver named Ganga Datt with him for the last 30 years on his limousine, which was originally owned by Acharya Rajneesh.  Ganga Datt passed away recently and at that time Mr. Poonawala was in Mumbai for some important work. As soon as he heard the news, he canceled all his meetings, requested the driver's family to await him for the cremation and came back to Pune immediately by a helicopter. On reaching Pune, he asked the limo to be decorated with flowers as he wished Ganga Datt should be taken in the same car which he himself had driven since the beginning. When Ganga Datt's family agreed to his wishes, he himself drove Ganga Datt from his home up to the ghat on his last journey. When asked about it, Mr. Poonawala replied that Ganga Datt had served him day and night, and he could atleast do this being eternally grateful to him. He further added that Ganga Datt rose up from poverty and educated both his children very well. His daughter is a Chartered accountant and that is so commendable. His comment in the end, is the essence of a successful life in all aspects:  "Everybody earns money which is nothing unusual in that, but we should always be grateful to those people who contribute to our success. This is the belief, we have been brought up with, which made me do, what I did". An inspiring example of humility.......   Such love, concern, gratitude, equality, respect, kindness, oneness, humility, humanity, all in all are what qualities GOD expects of each of us.

GUIDE TO A BETTER LIFE

GUIDE TO A BETTER LIFE  

 

This is amazing, Randy Pausch 47 yrs old, A computer Sc. lecturer from Mellon University he died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book 'The last lecture" before then, one of the bestsellers in 2007. What a legacy to leave behind… In a letter to his wife and his children, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe, he wrote this beautiful "guide to a better life" for his wife and children to follow. May you be blessed by his insight? POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE Personality: 1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment 3. Don't over do; keep your limits 4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does 5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip 6. Dream more while you are awake 7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.. 8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness. 9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others. 10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present 11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you 12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. 13. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but theee lessons you learn will last a lifetime. 14. Smile and laugh more 15. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Community: 16. Call your family often 17. Each day give something good to others 18. Forgive everyone for everything 19. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6 20. Try to make at least three people smile each day 21. What other people think of you is none of your business 22. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch. Life: 23. Do the right things 24. However good or bad a situation is, it will change 25. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up 26. The best is yet to come 27. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with, people you play with, people you work with and people you live with. Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.

Lessons in life at adjustments

THE BOILING FROG SYNDROME

Human Beings and frogs are the two creatures in nature who have tremendous power to adjust. Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating the water. As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature.
Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore. At that point the frog decides to jump out. The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it lost all its strength in adjusting with the water temperature. Very soon the frog dies.

What killed the frog?
Many of us would say the boiling water.
But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out.
We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to face. There are times when we need to face the situation and take the appropriate action.
If we allow people to exploit us physically, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do so. We have to decide when to jump.
Let us jump while we still have the strength.....
By most practical thoughts.

Share Life With True Friends

Ek Sach Chupa Hota Hai :- Jab Koi Kisi Ko Kehta Hai Ki "Mazaak Tha Yaar".

Ek Feeling Chupi Hoti Hai :- Jab Koi Kehta Hai "Mujhe Koi Farq Nahi Padta".

Ek Dard Chupa Hota Hai :- Jab Koi Kehta Hai "Its Ok".

Ek Zarurat Chupi Hoti Hai :- Jab Koi Kehta Hai "Mujhe Akela Chhod Do".

Ek Gehri Baat Chupi Hoti Hai :- Jab Koi Kehta Hai "Pata Nahi".

Ek Samundar Chupa Hota Hai Baato Ka :- Jab Koi "Khamosh Rehta Hai".....

Isi liye ek Open Heart Surgery unit k baahar likha huwa tha k....

"Agar Dil Khol Lete Apne Yaaro Ke Saath,
To Aaj Kholna Na Padta Auozaro K Saath"

"Share Life With True Friends"

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Paradox Of Our Times

Today we have bigger houses and smaller families

More conveniences, but less time

We have more degrees, but less common sense

More knowledge, but less judgment

We have more experts, but more problems

More medicine, but less wellness

We spend too recklessly

Laugh too little

Drive too fast

Get to angry too quickly

Stay up too late

Read too little

Watch TV too much

And pray too seldom

We multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values

We talk too much, love too little and lie too often

We’ve learned how to make living, but not a life

We’ve added years to life, not life to years

We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers

Wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints

We spend more, but have less

We buy more, enjoy it less

We’ve been all the way to the moon and back

But have trouble crossing the street to meet our neighbors.

We’ve conquered outer space,

But not inner space

We’ve split the atom

But not our prejudice

We write more, learn less,

Plan more, but accomplish less

We’ve learn to rush, but not to wait,

We have higher incomes , but lower morals

We build more computers to hold more information and to produce more copies

But have less communications

We are long on quantity,

But less in quality

These are the time of fast foods and slow digestion

Tall men, and short character

More leisure and less fun

more kinds of foods but less nutrition

Two incomes but more divorce

Fancier houses but broken homes

That’s why I propose, that as of today, you do not keep anything for special occasion, because every day you live is a special occasion.

Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs.

Spend more time with your family and friends, eat your favorite foods, and visit the places you love.

Life is a chain of “moments of enjoyment”, not only about survival.

Use your crystal goblets, do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.

Remove from vocabulary phrases like “one of these days” and “someday”

Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “one of these days“

Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them.

Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.

Every day, every hour, and every minute is special.

And you don’t know if it will be your last.

If you’re too busy to take the time to send this message to someone you love, and you tell yourself you will send it

“One of these days“

So believe me

“One of these days“

You may not be here to send it

LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE A SECOND CHANCE...........

Excellent message pls read... It was their anniversary, and Aisha was waiting for her husband Rajiv to show up. Things had changed since their marriage, the once cute couple couldn't-live-without-each-other had turned bitter. Fighting over every little things, both didn't like the way things had changed. Aisha was waiting to see if Rajiv remembered it was their anniversary! Just as the door bell rang she ran to find her husband wet and smiling with a bunch of flowers in his hand. The two started re-living the old days. Making up for fights, then was d plan for champagne, light music And it was raining outside! It was perfect. But the moment paused when the phone in the bedroom rang. Aisha went to pick it up and it was a man. "Hello ma'am I'm calling from the police station. Is this Mr Rajiv Mehra's number?" "Yes it is!" "I'm sorry ma'am; but there was an accident and a man died. We got this number from his wallet; we need you to come and identify his body." Aisha's heart sank.!!! She was shocked! But my husband is here with me?" "Sorry ma'am, but the incident took place at 2 pm, when he was boarding the train." Aisha was about to lose her conscience. How could this happen?! She had heard about the soul of the person coming to meet a loved one before it leaves! She ran into the other room. He was not there. It was true!   had left her for good!! Oh God she would have died for another chance to mend every little fight! She rolled on the floor in pain. She lost her chance! Forever! Suddenly there was a noise from the bathroom, the door opened and Rajiv came out and said "Darling, I forgot to tell you my wallet got stolen today". LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE. SO NEVER WASTE A MOMENT WHEN YOU CAN STILL MAKE UP FOR YOUR WRONGS!!! Let's start making amends. To parents To siblings To friends And many more. No one is promised tomorrow. Have a wonderful Life with no regrets!

How God created Man ....

How God created Man ....


God created the donkey and said to him.
"You will be a donkey. You will work un-tiringly from sunrise to sunset carrying burdens on your back. You will eat grass, you will have no intelligence and you will live 50 years."
The donkey answered:
"I will be a donkey, but to live 50 years is much.
Give me only 20 years"
God granted his wish.

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God created the dog and said to him:
"You will guard the house of man. You will be his best Friend.
You will eat the scraps that he gives you and you will live 30 years.
You will be a dog. " The dog answered:
"Sir, to live 30 years is too much, give me only 15 years.
" God granted his wish.

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God created the monkey and said to him:
"You will be a monkey. You will swing from branch to branch doing tricks.
You will be amusing and you will live 20 years. " The monkey answered:
"To live 20 years is too much, give me only 10 years."
God granted his wish.

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Finally God created man and said to him:
"You will be man, the only rational creature on the face of the earth.
You will use your intelligence to become master over all the animals.
You will dominate the world and you will live 20 years."
Man responded:
"Sir, I will be a man but to live only 20 years is very little,
give me the 30 years that the donkey refused, the 15 years that the dog did not want and the 10 years the monkey refused.
" God granted man's wish
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And since then, man lives 20 years as a man, marries and spends 30 years like a donkey, working and carrying all the burdens on his back.

Then when his children are grown, he lives 15 years like a dog taking care of the house and eating whatever is given to him, so that when he is old, he can retire and live 10 years like a monkey, going from house to house and from one son or daughter to another doing tricks to amuse his grandchildren.

That's Life.

Is'nt it?

"God is great"